How you look back and wonder..... what if I decided to do something different instead of going to the swimming pool.  What if I had decided not to talk to her...what if that bratty little girl wasn't there ....the ice breaker would have been gone.  Sometimes it makes me think about destiny.  It is the powers which preside over human life, and determine its circumstances and duration.  It is usually a predetermined course of events considered as something beyond human power or control.  I can never see myself without Karen and nor could she regarding me.  My life was empty and lost until she arrived.